
While you are out running around this holiday season
making everything just perfect for family and friends,
don't forget that your pets can get caught up in all the
extra preparations, and the stress that goes along with
plans, trips, rearrangements in the home, and
guests.
Some of our pets are OK
with this and thrive, just like some people thrive on
the happy chaos. Others get needy and cling trying
to find a sense of calm or a place they can be alone.
Keep an eye on your pet during this time. This may
be the time to refresh yourself and your pet with a game
that has been forgotten or not played in a while.
One thing you can do to
help your pet is to tell them what is going to happen.
For instance if you have relatives coming to visit, let
your pet know. It is easy, just talk with him or
her. Say what you would as if you were talking with
another person. This helps your pet know there is
a change coming.
If you have guests
coming, you might say “Bubba, Uncle John and Aunt Mary
are coming next week to stay with us for 4 days.
They will be in the guest room. Would you be
willing to help me greet them and make them feel
welcome?” This lets your pet know who is coming,
how long they are staying and by asking to help greet
and make your human guests welcome, you have included
your pet. They really do appreciate being asked
and invited to take part of your activities.
Take an extra second
to be sure your holiday treats are not where the pets
can get at them. Most of us know of a creative pet who
can get into a locked cabinet or up on a cupboard to
sample things. Make sure you have some good for them
treats on hand. While it is tempting to offer
human food, most of us know it isn’t good for our
companions.

One last word of
advice. The holidays are often a time when families
introduce a new animal to the household. This
is a wonderful thing to do. You might consider
adopting before a major holiday party in your house.
This gives more time to introduce the new member to the
existing family and allows a chance for a bit of a
routine to start.
You might also wait until
after the majority of your holiday has taken place.
Again, this allows you to get back to a routine and may
offer up that extra time that can be needed when you
have a new family member. You want to have a
smooth transition and a lot of happy memories to create
throughout the year. If you are considering a new
puppy or kitten, be sure you ask your older dog or cat
if they will help you by teaching the new arrival some
of the house rules. Allow them to have an
adjustment period. Some animals are eager to have
a new companion. Others might not be as happy, let
them know you love them and want them to be happy too.